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The speaker, Dealer Eliminator, introduces himself as a physician-scientist with an interest in pediatrics and oncology. He discusses the importance of having a strong sense of self and how it can lead to higher self-confidence. He suggests three recommendations for developing a strong sense of self: 1) developing a strong philosophical or spiritual identity, 2) setting a value system and living by it, and 3) being proactive and taking action to improve oneself. He emphasizes the need for transparency and encourages viewers to like, share, and subscribe to his YouTube channel. Hello ladies, gentlemen, and all of you guys and chaps. I'm Hillary Alemenzohu , and if you want all things this self-improvement, you're in the right place. And in this channel we get right to it . So a few weeks ago, I posted a video on my Instagram story, where I produced the idea that I'll be discussing two videos, a true video platform like this. Several concepts, several topics that I found interesting. And the result of this discussion, I guess, would revolve around faith, around fitness, around lifestyle. I don't know where I'll leave it. So, with that, let's get right to it. Thank you very much for watching all my stuff. I'm Dealer Eliminator. I'm a doctor. I have a tradition of becoming a physician-scientist with particular interest in pediatrics and oncology. I'm on a journey of medicine, and on the other side, I'm on a journey of life. I've learned that medicines are on the way, and I'm learning as I go on this journey. And I would like to document this process in a sense, and really share some insights that I've drawn from my daily interactions with the world. And through this platform, I'm hoping that I'll be able to provide more useful insights for you. I really want to help, and that's why I'm doing this. So, now, the rest of you, who've been discussing this topic, I see you in the air. Talk a little bit about yourself. So, I was drawn, you know, deciding on what to speak about first. And I feel it's really important that we discuss this, because I feel like your self-identity informs everything that we do. There's a variety of ways we can improve. There's a variety of aspects of our lives that I know that you want to improve, that I want to improve. But trust me, at the base, at the most critical examples of life, what you really need to develop is a strong or high sense of self. We know this, people. The natural-born leaders, the mentors that you aspire to be, the personalities that you would like to build out of you. What is the consistent quality or consistent trait that we see amongst these high achievers? It's a strong sense of self. Everyone, and I mean everyone, would benefit from having a strong identity of who they are, which would then, consequently, form a higher self-confidence. So, that's what this video is going to be about, really. What I think we need are three recommendations that you make to improve a strong sense of self. The first one I said, before I bend down here, you must, and I put it on, develop a strong philosophical or spiritual identity. It's not that we don't. You see, confidence comes from nothing. It comes from something. It's not what I've been there. I used to be very serious, very shy. And I think that I've walked out from that very soon, really, boy. It's now that I have to be. I'm not here yet, don't put it that way. I think that one of the biggest changes that I make is developing a strong philosophical identity, which is based on my faith. Now, I believe, because I'm a Christian, that the God who created the system is God. And yes, I do believe in the creation story, in the origin story. That's a whole different thing. But I believe that God who created the universe created a being born like that. How do you change that? It involves the identity that I'm like God. I have the ability to create. I have the ability to aspire. I have goals. And I have self-importance. I have self-importance as well. This changes everything. And there's a lot of people all over the place out there, on the internet, on books, on blogs, or wherever, and you want to improve people's confidence, and tell people, shout in the mirror, do all of this. At this stage, it all starts from a high self-identity. You must exist. You must know who you are, and you must be based on something larger than yourself. I don't want to prescribe religion. But for me, the faith in God is my strongest self-identity. I know that I'm really a God, and it's right there. And that is found in everything that I do. That is found in my upbringing. That is found in how I approach people. How I talk to people. How they talk to me. So it's key that you really focus on faith first of all. Now, for the second one, I think this will appeal more to the man, because I have that perspective. For me, you must set your balance. And I can't stress this enough. If you're able to be confident, if you're able to walk around with a high sense of self, you must set your balance. You must have a balance of self. Because any people, and I mean any people that are sure of self, eat, and drink, and polarize, they know what they believe, and they are informed of what they believe, and they stand for the belief of balance. Now, what does setting your balance look like? For me, I don't do it at all. That's a balance of self. I set it, and I live by it. But that changes something. When I set a value system, and I set an identity that I have, consistent with that value system, it informs how I act, and how I carry myself. I'm not easily influenced. I'm not in a position of power. Wherever I go, or whomever I meet, it doesn't matter who the person is. I don't do it at all. It's a value system that I have, and I stand by it. You must define your value system. And it's important. This is a difficult advice. You're going to say, it's difficult to tell what you know. Well, you must do this work. You must do this work. What are your boundaries? What are your political ideals? What are your stand for religion? What are your stand for the world? What are your stand on everything? You must have a set, and you must stand by it, and work to stand by it. We're not perfect, and we're not perfect on this journey. But have a subtle identity, or a subtle, or a virtual identity, combined with boundaries that you set for yourself, and you live by, will change your life. This is the way to confidence. I'll tell you. Now, the third, do confidence. And I cannot stress this enough. There's this, there's a guy, I don't know him, he's a business person, and I can only tell you he's been in some of the religions. He said something, you don't get confidence by shouting that you are O, and confident O, and this. You get confidence by spouting the irrefutable truth that you are who you say you are. There's a phrase I would like to share that made me so much susceptible to this. God is omnipotent, the most powerful being. And we are able to see how he says the first part, because he speaks and he lives. That's the essence, that's what he gave, that's what gave me the very first part. And if the president of Nigeria speaks, it happens, because he is powerful. And if you want to develop the sense of confidence that is based on true power, you have to be confident, you have to stay true and make them happen. And there's a level of transparency of course across the media. So why are we frustrated? Take confidence in business. Learn the skill. Take confidence in your job. Do something every day that makes you a little bit better. Read books, watch stuff like this. Take confidence. So the good way to start our channel, and what we start, is how to build a high self-esteem, how to build, or how to develop a high sense of self. And we said, number one, develop a strong financial support for a superior identity. Number two, set your value system as set and right. And number three, be positive. And this is a much more nuanced discussion that we have apparently to be able to improve. But at the base, my thinking of these three things, and what is to improve them, would really, really, really, create that perfect life. So this is the first video series. I'm glad that we've talked to this point. As I say, please like, please share, please subscribe to my YouTube channel. I'm new at this. I'm only going to get better as we go. I have a long story. And I hope, through some humans, I'm able to contribute and improve your life from my perspective. Thank you.