People-ing

The speaker discusses the challenges and joys of dealing with people in everyday life. They emphasize the importance of finding moments of peace and solitude to recharge from constant interaction with others. The speaker also mentions the challenges of being a parent and the need for breaks from their children. They highlight the need for adults to navigate through various situations and maintain their own sense of purpose. Overall, the speaker suggests finding a balance between engaging with people and taking time for oneself. Grand Ras, welcome back to It Shall Be Dope. You're here with Willie Whittle. Let's talk about it. So one of the things that I feel like we all deal with in life that give us the blues, give us the ups, the downs, the lefts, the rights, but also can give us joy and pleasure at times, but can be very supplemental, is people. Oh my God. So I want to talk about peopling today. Peopling is, you know, I want to do this, this is what I want to do. Hello everyone. If you've been faced with an economic issue and peopling is the cause of 100% of the issues when you go to the store and you have aggravation or you try to get to the parking spot that you want to, do you want to learn how to deal with peopling? Please dial 888, you know, some phone number or whatever. And it's kind of surreal because we are people. So sometimes we do too much peopling for others and sometimes we get peopled out. And some of those people that we deal with on a daily basis, they might have too much energy or not enough energy or you want them to bring so much more to the table or you want them to take less off of your plate. I mean, I don't know, like everybody's peopling situation is different, but I remember coming home from work the other day and I said, I'm tired of peopling. I'm just tired of it. And I like the people that I hang out with. I like the people that I'm around. It's not like I'm like, I don't like them. It's just sometimes when you people too much, it burns you out and you got to recenter, you got to get some peace. And sometimes you got to just go stare at a tree or something, right? So this morning, I achieved my goal of like watching the sunrise and I like that. That's the stuff that I feel like helps me with my peopling pandemic. Because if I see something that's bigger than me, then it makes me feel like I have a greater purpose and it humbles me. So I said, I can deal with the people a little longer. I can do this again on Monday or, you know, and that's fine. I got this. But my peopling on a daily basis, you know, lets you get a taste of my world or my kids. My kids are some of my people that I just, you know, sometimes I got to close the door. And I know everybody deals with it. If you got kids, you know, if you know, you know, if not, good luck. I hope one day you're willing to find out. If not, then so be it. But sometimes the kids, they won't even let you go to the bathroom without you trying to, you know, figure out what they trying to do next. And they have an agenda. Funny story, they have an agenda when they say, hey, I would like to do this. And you tell them, you know, some kind of wisdom that I've learned over time. Hey, when I tried to do this, this happened. They're like, whatever, dad, we don't care. We are in it and we just came to you for approval of this idea that I have. And if you can't offer me that, then I don't know what else to do. So, so I'm only here for one reason when I, you know, deal with my kids. And good news is I love them and I built this, this structure and me and my wife built this structure where they have the ability, they have the, the, the growth mindset to, to try to make an informed decision before they ask me. And that's for my olders and for my youngers, you know, they, can we go outside and ride bikes? Yeah, get out, go ahead. That helps me out. But I love it. I love it. And then, you know, it's got that, that, that love hate relationship. I didn't really want to use the word hate because, you know, it is what it is. But sometimes you just got to get away from it. And my daughter, I love her so much. She's sick. She's such a live wire and she's, she's, hey, dad, hey, dad, hey, dad, hey, dad, hey, dad. And I'm like, oh, my dad is like, are you a DJ? Like, what is, where's the remix? Like, can you go ask one of your brothers or your sister or something? Because I need a break. We all people a lot on a daily basis and how that, however, that pertains to you and your daily life, make sure you get a chance to not people for a little bit, make sure you find you a happy space where you just said, I have two porches, I have a front porch, a back porch, and those are my zone. So when I'm, when I'm on the back porch, I'm getting my, my nature, my sun on me, my fresh air, and I'm being, and that's my time where I do less peopling and it helps my soul a lot. Also, let's, let's segue out of the kid realm because we know kids are kids, so we can, we can say kids are kids is cool, but adults, listen, I'm going to talk about myself first, and then we'll talk about everybody else. So whenever you deal with adults and adulting and their attitudes and, and, and, and a different adult daily, daily routine, excuse me, then you get hit with so many different curve balls that we have to just try to maneuver through and still try to find the strength to not let go of the things that we're doing, because we know that we're not going to be able to do it all the time, but we know that we're not going to be able to do it all the time, but we know that we're not going to be able to do it all the time, but we know that we're not going to be able to do it all the time, but we know that we're not going to be able to do it all the time, but we know that we're not going to be able to do it all the time, but we know that we're not going to be able to do it all the time, but we know that we're not going to be able to do it all the time, but we know that we're not going to be able to do it all the time, but we know that we're not going to be able to do it all the time, but we know 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