Stop worrying about what people think

The speaker emphasizes the importance of worrying less about whether others like you and focusing more on whether you like them. They discuss how people often struggle with being authentic on social media or promoting their business because they worry about what others think. However, the speaker encourages listeners to stop wasting time and energy on people who don't matter and instead focus on those who uplift and support them. They urge listeners to be their authentic selves and surround themselves with accepting people. The speaker also advises not to let others dim their light and to remember that it's safe to share their truth and take up space. They conclude by urging listeners to give less importance to others' opinions and to share their work and energy without worrying about judgment. Hello and welcome to today's episode. Okay, so today we are just going to keep it real, okay? This is going to be short and sweet, but it's definitely something that matters and I want to speak on real quick. And that is about worrying less about if somebody likes you and more about if you even like them. So let's dive in. I know so often people can have a really hard time with, like, showing up on social media or really promoting their business or really just showing up and truly being themselves and being really authentic with what it is they want to share. And so often we can get caught in our head about what other people are thinking and worrying about that. We haven't even checked in to see, like, do we really even care? Like, do we even like them, the ones that are watching and the ones that you're afraid are going to judge you or make you feel bad about whatever it is that you're putting out? And this really can be an energy leak. This really can keep you from truly showing up and sharing what it is that you want to share. And I don't care if it's a picture of your food or your work. Whatever it is, it really is just being authentically you. And the world needs more of you, your essence, your energy. And we all know that it can be hard to show up on social media when we're constantly worried about what other people are thinking. But the truth is it's not really worth it. You know, we really waste our time and our energy on people who don't even matter. So instead, let's focus on the people who really lift you up, who really want to see you. They want to see everything that you have to share. And they make you feel good. And most importantly, they focus, you know, on you and what it is that you enjoy. And you just being your authentic self. And so I really just want you to check in with where is it that you're holding back out of fear of what somebody else is going to think. And reality is if you have even thought about whether or not you even like them or whether or not you really even care. And most of the time, you've not really thought about it, and especially if it's like certain individuals. It really doesn't matter. It doesn't matter what they think. It doesn't matter what they say. And if you are going to continue to let that certain person or people or whatever keep you from sharing what it is that you want to share. It's time to cut out the negative energy and make room for positive energy and the positive vibes. And don't be afraid to be your authentic self. Surround yourself with people who accept you for who you are. When you show up authentically, you really will weed out the people that are not for you. And that's okay because you're not for everybody. And just to remember that you are the star of your own story. Don't let anyone dim your light. And just know that it's safe to take up space. It's safe to show up authentically. It's safe to share your truth, your views, your energy, all of it. So remember, it's not about pleasing others. It's about pleasing yourself, doing what feels good to you. And let's not worry about whether or not somebody likes you or likes what you're putting out. And let's make it more about you and you sharing your truth, your essence, your energy with the world because we need you. And, yeah, that's your superpower. And so really it is about coming back to giving less fucks about what people think, okay? So get out there. Share your work. Share your energy. Share you if that feels good to you. And screw what anybody thinks or, you know, has to say about whatever it is that you're putting out. So I just wanted to share that with you. I know so often so many of us can really hold back out of fear of what other people are going to think of us. But it's time to start showing up. So that is it for today. If you liked this episode or you know somebody that needs to hear this message, please share it with them. Please leave a review. I appreciate your support. And I will check in with you on the next episode.