ShakeBacCrew Podcast episode 2

The conversation revolves around topics of emotional and physical abuse, trust issues, cheating in relationships, and the importance of communication and clarity in sexual relationships. The speaker reflects on their own experiences and the difficulty of navigating these issues. They discuss the need for women to initiate sex more explicitly to avoid confusion. Overall, the conversation explores the complexities of relationships and the challenges individuals face in understanding and meeting each other's needs. I remember I met somebody emotionally damaged physically emotionally abused. Yeah, like somebody that to the point no return Not the point of no return, but it was built like real real bad real bad Like yeah, they like don't trust nothing you say like everything is like a problem Like but I think the problem with a lot of people is when they've been through stuff like that They think the next person is automatically like the person they just left They don't give people the benefit of the doubt which I ain't gonna say, you know, you can't put your past limitations from the person you just left with on to the new person because And it takes so long to break out of it, too But a lot of people Want to be stuck in that way so they can have an excuse to use like oh I'm like this because of such-and-such if you really want to change you'll do the work to change I know I know Greg and moose met one of those before Yeah, I mean, that's like I know who's this mentally and physically I'm there myself mentally physically abused But not physically Me please. Oh, yeah, bro. Yeah. Yeah, my girl. Yeah, Greg. Oh, obviously. Yeah No, not physically, but mentally you've met a girl that was mentally and mentally or physically abused And I use percent of females you met I Mean because it's like anger like just it's just so rare like it's so rare for people to I mean not rare It's so common for people to see now. There's a lot of people have that so it is it's so bad It's kind of kind of bad, bro but I think the problem is Cheating getting so normal people get like they normally get mad when or they don't get mad But they like you tell the person you don't cheat. They like what like nigga That's the that's the normal thing to do Yeah like cheating is becoming common and not cheating is becoming rare like because Because like in a relationship when somebody cheat then the other person automatically. Oh, let's go. I'm gonna cheat on him Together. Yeah, I'm not gonna lie daddy for me. You cheat you want I'm leaving at that point That's not cool the only way I will forgive somebody I'll forgive you and we can still be friends after but We different though ladies, have you ever been cheated cheated on have you ever been mentally physically abused? God damn, I mean the role with two of them right now Is it bad is it like I Think it's bad for all because like that's all I like like is you mentally like That bad though, so you don't we don't Okay, I think this is a fair question are you still friends with any of the females that have done like now I wouldn't say wrong, but you've Tried to pursue something. There's no yeah Of course. Yes I was wondering. Yeah, cuz like you said like this is obviously all podcast, but you say you close the doors, don't you? Close the doors on some or there's some like just Doors just close That's fair fair no, I mean it happens to me sometimes some go some stay But me like we'd be cordial would be cool because I was like present most the time we had a fresh Friendship before so even if we don't work out I'm a person still be cool act like not act like nothing happened But you still my dog at the end of day cuz we was friends before anything else happened And that's it. I think I think that's me get older though cuz like when I was younger I would think like now I can't be cool with a girl that did me wrong But then I get older Yeah, but then I get I'd be like man. It's in the past it happened You know we all grown now you was my dog like before we even had to intimate family for one another man We could be dogs Cool somebody you genuinely cared about that. I know like that now that do be hard But now it hurt more when it's like somebody you didn't like took on dates Yeah, I was like connecting connect the angle I do hurt more when y'all don't work out, but it do That's like The angle up for every man has been heartbroken or had a problem. This is it's a different type of pain. I ain't gonna love Scoot over goofy All I being caught thank you man, it's crazy who called me talking man No, I didn't you shut up Yeah, no like no like no not at all How many points you get Oh What's the score Hmm all right have you ever been mentally abused by one I never let somebody get my mental You lose your mental you lose your everything so I never let it get that far You never been vulnerable with a woman. I know I know I have like it was a girl I'm told that's when like me my last relationship like every time we get an argument obviously I have been vulnerable and told her a lot of things and then she will flip when we argue she'll flip it and I Didn't know that I didn't yeah, I know I didn't told a couple of women like some like some secrets and stuff So there's egos and stuff and they didn't do it back to my face. That's why I like it But I was like younger though. So like now I just like okay, I don't tell nobody nothing Yeah Even like the deepest like Yeah, I did it one time The most I'd say is like bro, I'm just I'm going through it right now Well for me like I've been with her for six years, so she's seen majority of everything She's seen it. She's been there Yeah, so yeah I wonder why Why don't you Have you ever been in a relationship for that long For three years Why it was a good relationship? Alright, so I mean he's I'm saying why haven't you? And why did you say for six years why did why can't why didn't why haven't you gone for six years and why did you It just happened, bro. I can't say like I obviously I loved her. I Well, I still do love her to this day. Obviously love don't go nowhere, but it was just Yeah, yes, I know I sometimes love Okay, I probably lose love her but right now I still love her. I hope she do you know But that let's us know you care for her. Genuinely a wholeheartedly, though That is very true But I think wait, wait, wait, come on say look You're ready, are you ready? Yeah, you say it or should I say it? No, like dead the fuck yeah, no like no funny shit no like no like no like Man all of us are single we're chillin, bro Man all of us are single we're chillin, bro But but yeah, like I'm back to what I was saying I'm like, obviously six years just happened like I did what I did when it's one or something, but then I'm here We go this way to be Don't look away What happened nothing All right, the big the big part was that once I'm one night in the summer, I said I can't I can't have sex with you no more I Told her I thought I texted that while I was at work ding cuz she wanted to have sex with me. I'm like, okay, whatever Cuz she wanted me to say something freaky back and I'm like, I can't match your energy because I don't want to fuck you I'm not gonna say anything. I'm not gonna say anything. I'm not gonna say anything. I'm not gonna say anything I'm not gonna say anything. I'm not gonna say anything. I'm not gonna say anything I'm not gonna lie. Okay How do you how would y'all feel if a man said that's yeah Hold on wait, wait, wait So say you ain't gonna do like and he just don't want to do it that sound like he'd like no I'm not in the mood right now. You would block him off of that Okay. No, I thought I don't wanna fuck her at all Okay That's fair, but I was talking about like say you a link to do like two or three times I was crazy Me or him You say that she should like we've been together position. I don't think she's a block You're right she should break up with you then block exactly One one if your girlfriend says she didn't want to have sex with you anymore you'd be pissed I'll be so hurt I Shoulda just broke over in a station I wanted to Look bro, I was This is I was stuck in limbo. I was like I do want you, but then I don't wanna if you gotta think about it You don't no, no, no. No. No, I want to think about I said I would be I did want her But then I didn't want to have sex where so it's just like I was in limbo like fuck what the fuck I should do I want you You can't be with somebody you not object to like sexually. I know and I told her I don't see how some people do it Like I don't like bro. The only way the only way we don't have sex is she initiated obviously, mr. Mr. Young man gonna get hard But anyways, I know I think women should initiate sex more cuz now like the reason I say that is because there is no Complications or confusions on like it's in a stuff if women initiated, you know, okay She wanted this I could like sometimes, you know, I was a dude women to throw you signs You might have to test the water or something. I mean, I can't read fine. So I don't do nothing Yeah, I'm bad at reading fine. Yeah back on that day terrible like dirt Like mud like like it's God awful like oh My gosh top two and not two Okay Okay, let's get this right every man messes up in that category not as much as me but every man does do it Yeah, there we go But yeah I'm not good at reading signs like you have to tell me straight up certain things I might get like you got to be obvious on like you walk in the room butt naked like that's obvious That's that's too fucking hot. Yeah, or like can you give me obvious? I wish he had all her clothes on that might be like too obvious where I just don't want to know more. Yeah It's my girlfriend, I'm still gonna want it Say you've already put the work in and then she gives it to you I mean, yeah, she's walking naked. No. No, I'm not Yeah, yeah, we're talking. Yeah, I'll drop my pants next But yeah, I'm not good at reading tonight So I think that women should initiate it more so then it's like no confusion And then a lot of dude ain't a lot a lot of men be weirdos a lot a lot of men be weirdos, too So like okay, what's the obvious sign with clothes on? Her touching like, you know, oh the touch the thigh. No, not even a thigh cuz I won't even read that way What the fuck you got? You're gonna have to grab my shit like Rubbing rubbing Why did you do anything that is so annoying bro, I'm trying to be over here be respectful or not I Was so I only did that one time bro I linked it with this girl and I I was in her house for like a good four or five hours watching movies and I Didn't do not one thing. I was saying predicament, but it was the driving nervous before Hey, hey the one goal is you've got a last I Don't put it like this I'm put like this if she don't make you nervous then I I Ain't gonna lie Yeah, y'all gonna get on my ass, but you tell your story. I'm my hand was sweaty when I went downstairs So did it make like no it did not happen. Shut up. I was gonna ask didn't make it extra lubricated for you know You said down. No I'm like, ah, why am I here so sweaty? It was way y'all the entire time. I was down there I was like why the fuck is going on? All right, that wasn't good enough for me to tell none of mine so you should I love the pause But yeah that one time I was at her house. We was just it was kind of I didn't do nothing. Yeah, and then the second time I go there. We've had a room to ourselves The first time I wasn't now the freshman colleges, uh All her roommates is gone. This is before like spring break before Kobe. We'd only two and a half career First saw some crazy stuff happen. We had sitting on the couch I'm She wanted to be but she was asleep and I did right and then the second time I'm gonna I'm at the drive-in movies Me and the girls laying on the back of my car. This is my old SUV She started hitting me and stuff like like play it like playing around You going She started hitting me and stuff playing around but she hit me like she hit me dead in my dick twice like hard Like I ain't gonna lie. I was hard It's the drive-in movies other cars around We are young kickers right I think Yes there I Think you know You should watch you you just fell I Did but I You made it up for it. So have you guys ever done it something in front of family? What? Hey, well, I that's not a that's not a very good question Greg Greg stiffer Greg stiffer. What's not a good question? You weren't even on question 10 To question 14 or ever been caught In the action just or anybody yeah Okay, they said yes, can we go back to the first question? What do you do in front of the family? No, anybody's What'd you do what do you do? Oh my god, don't say that What happened Miss a little incident It was Home come get court-warming You know everybody like everybody at the crib like a whole bunch of us went to the one person's crib Yeah, number one Nate. What was going? What's gonna happen, bro? Like But how Could know how you are. Yeah No, Greg. Okay, Greg uses example say you're getting here from a girl and her father walks in he tries to fight you Mm-hmm, but think about you be like I've heard you say how you gonna get how you gonna get mad at me cuz your Daughter wanted to do it I Imagine somebody younger saying that to you like saying what you just said to them I'm gonna fuck you up. You're gonna die. Are you gonna wait time find somebody around your age to fuck you up? If he's smart he takes the third option cuz I don't think you want to go to jail for manslaughter in a 17 I have no problem But I'm gonna get away with it, but but then you won't be able to see your daughter Yeah, and then she's gonna be sucking dick. You don't know who's dick it is Oh You mad at her for doing natural things like sucking dick for women is a part of life Part of sex women get ahead Look when she finds her one she can go ahead and do that. What if he finds the one multiple ones? I Mean by that Seven six twos five five six is three three twos all that you're gonna shoot your daughter from trying to do following God to 309 Shooting your daughter can't be on yeah, but shooting your daughter because she's trying to read or recreate is crazy All right What if you're say we all have a daughter yeah God willing, but um she gets pregnant while she's in the house Yeah, Nate can be mad one fucking bit I'll be there for my kids. I'll be there for a boy. Oh boy. Yeah He most definitely likes damn, I'm not I don't know why people kick they don't out when they pray like that doesn't make any sense So now you're going to danger your daughter and the child but I Would like you know cuz it again it is her body sounds like what do you want to do? Do you want to keep the child? Do you want to you know abort it? I would I would ask my daughter what you want to do cuz I know it's a lot for a girl 1516 however years old to go through that process as at that age, so that's a lot True true, but she says abortion God willing. I hope we all have kids around the same time so they can grow up together None of us gonna live in the same state hopefully there's no daughters involved. I don't like Yeah, I'm not gonna think about it if one of us have a daughter and they all run a day It'll be cool when they elementary school in middle school middle school I mean high school you know they start going through them changes whoever got the daughter is gonna be Older than all our The person the person I get pregnant is a person I plan to marry simple as that yeah I'm not gonna lie. I'm a married person before I don't you I don't need multiple baby mom I don't like how people act like having a kid like People act like marriage is a bigger commitment to having a kid like you're bringing new life into the world people will be okay with Having a kid together, but they'll think nothing of Getting married. They'd be like oh, that's too big of a commitment, but you can sit down and have sex with this person like isn't that? Let me say that all right so no one has a question the question was What would we do if one of our kids was fooling around with what each other? 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