April 17th Hanging Withe The Walkers

I can't take it, I can't take it, I can't take it Without you, I'm all I've got I turn it up, I do this for you I can't take it, I can't take it, I can't take it Without you, I'm all I've got I turn it up, I do this for you My heart feels so new You make my life feel so true Because of you my heart is healed And to you I'll always yield It is with you I wanna age As we turn every page Beside me in your arms With all your grace and charms My heart feels so new You make my life feel so true Because of you my heart is healed And to you I'll always yield It is with you I wanna age As we turn every page Beside me in your arms With all your grace and charms I can't take it, I can't take it, I can't take it Without you, I'm all I've got I turn it up, I do this for you I can't take it, I can't take it, I can't take it Without you, I'm all I've got I turn it up, I do this for you You make me warm inside As I look into your eyes When your lips reach mine I'm reassured that you're all mine There is no end to your love Because it comes from above You know I'm insecure Because your love is true You make me warm inside As I look into your eyes When your lips reach mine I'm reassured that you're all mine There is no end to your love Because it comes from above You know I'm insecure Because your love is true You make me warm inside As I look into your eyes When your lips reach mine I'm reassured that you're all mine There is no end to your love Because it comes from above You know I'm insecure Because your love is true You make me warm inside As I look into your eyes When your lips reach mine I'm reassured that you're all mine There is no end to your love Because it comes from above You know I'm insecure I'm too insecure I can't take it I can't take it Without you I'm trying to take it I'm too insecure I can't take it I can't take it Without you I'm trying to take it I'm trying to take it I'm too insecure Good evening, good evening, good evening And welcome to another segment of Hanging with the Walkers Well as you can see He's here But he's not here So Here we are hanging out together Me and you You and me And we're going to do this thing On this segment of Hanging with the Walkers on this beautiful Monday evening My co-host is down for the evening Let us please pray for him What an attack All of that driving All of those miles So excited about what tonight was going to bring And then He's not able to be with us But we're going to act like he's already here Because we're going through And we're going to start on tonight We're going to say a prayer for him That God will touch and heal his body We do believe in the healing power And the anointing We know it's just a test We understand that the body is fragile But that's okay, we understand And as he says The work still must go on So those that know the words of prayer Let me say a Prayer for my host and my co-host Pastor Rogers Walker Father in the name of Jesus God We thank you right now God for who you are And what you are in our lives We understand that you are our healer And we understand totally that Whatever you will God it will be done So God just touch him right now From the crown of his head to the very soul of his feet God we bind that pain right now In the name of Jesus We understand and know How great the attack is Because of how great the assignment is So we thank you right now God That you begin to stir up the gift that's on the inside of him God And cause a healing like never before God Touch the fingers, touch the arms Touch the shoulders, touch the elbows Every ligament, every tendon Every muscle right now In the name of Jesus God Begin to calm the nerves right now And we thank you right now That you begin to dissipate the pain God And cast it into a place that only you have for it God We understand and know that Because of our words God We have not because we ask not So we're asking for a healing on tonight And a quick recovery God You said that we could ask anything of you God If we just come to you In faith and believing That it's already done God we know that we're touching the ground There are more than two touching the ground right now God that this thing is done So we thank you right now for miracle signs and wonders God we thank you for a speedy recovery In Jesus name we pray amen amen And amen And it is already done We already know that it's The pain is easing up right now We know that wherever it was However it was it's about to dissipate And we'll be able to have a praise report That God did that thing We do believe and we understand The attack of the enemy And because of the mindset Because of him saying What it is that he wanted to do What it is that he wanted to say How it is that he wanted to present Of course it would be a fight Because anytime we start to deal with the men of God We know That this is what is going to take place So we believe And we walk in it And we act like it's already done In Jesus name So finally got him to get a little rest Medicated him safely Shall I say Rubbed him down real good And hopefully He'll be able to relax Almost like a pinched nerve That actually just Just grabbed him all of a sudden And I know it's because His great desire To be able to hang out with us on tonight And to share a word Into the lives of all of you So Tonight is supposed to be Communication part three Communication part three From the men point of view Amen Thank you so much evangelist We declare it to be Amen Restoration in you men of God Amen We believe in God We know that is what he is going to do And we don't understand Now why When it comes to Communication in the men The phone number to call in tonight 727-731-0128 731-0128 Communication part three Definitely to hear from The men point of view Of how they communicate And what it is they want to say And how they say it When it comes to relationships When it comes to their families When it comes to things that are important to them Just woman to woman On tonight 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Yes Good afternoon, you're calling in to Hangin' with the Walkers Who do we have the pleasure of speaking with? Um, Katina Well, good evening Katina, how are you? I'm doing fine, how are you? Oh, beautiful, thank you I think I'm the opposite of everybody on this line I think I'm the passive one You sure are I'm the passive-aggressive one Like, I'm passive first And then I think I hold my opinion because You guys ain't gonna listen to the passive people anyway So I think I own my opinion And I just let it be what it be And just be there to help put the pieces back together And out of my mind I'm like, I told you what don't work I knew what don't work, but I learn my different languages from different people I guess in my situation I had aunts, I had cousins So, and then I had a godmom So then I had school teachers So, um, I was telling someone the other day Your language is different when you're in a different situation Right When you're at home you talk different And when you're in school you talk different Or when you're handling business Like, um, one of my friends said to me When I'm handling business I'm a whole totally different person Right, right, I agree And they were shocked with me because My whole language, even my tone changed I was just having a conversation with my godson the other day He said, it's not what you say, it's the tone which you use Yes, yes, I agree It makes it I guess aggressive or assertiveness But I learned that with certain people I'm passive And with other people I'm aggressive Okay And then when I'm really trying to get my point across I can be assertive Okay I guess it's whatever mood I'm in that day So, so And my teacher, I don't want to call names But my school teacher told me That your language and how you communicate Effectively You can get your point across without Going overboard Okay If that's safe to say Okay Now I want to go to right here where You made the statement to say that you are Considered as passive Yes What does that mean? I let you guys run over me Not you guys, not you guys There you go Shut up Everybody needs to shut up Shut up I'm not gonna play I'm not gonna play I'm gonna play, yo Not you all to say, the ladies on the line I'll allow people to say And do things the whole while I'm boiling on the inside But I'm not speaking my truth Okay I have my truth So that you can get your point across And we're gonna do it your way Because I don't want compensation Wow Wow Wow Even though I know Even though I know what I'm doing And I know it's gonna turn out right But because You are so aggressive And you are so Jesus Sure of it I let you have it Oh my God That just gave me chills I'm here with And I'm there to To hold my arms out and say Okay we can fix this Let's just do it this way Hmm That just gave me chills Because I was always taught that Everything doesn't require a Combat You don't always have to Say what you mean Sometimes you can just shut up and let them Let them have it And if it doesn't work It's not your fault that it didn't work Because you did it their way So when we're passive We just allow a thing to go on Until it directly affects us And when it directly affects us Then it pushes a button And we become this other person Am I hearing that correctly? You're nailing it Wow And then when that person comes out Then it looks as We're being disrespectful Because now we're giving you our truth When we have never given you our truth before So you have never seen that side So when that side actually comes out To you it comes out as being disrespectful Oh my goodness Hmm Okay Can I ask a question? Please do No First of Tina Okay so As a Christian There are ways you can express Without Coming out of character And Without allowing people to I would say step on you Now you know I know I am very verbal But Even so Because you represent God And God don't want us to be footstooled So sometimes Because I looked up everywhere we're talking about And The passive Sometimes when we're pushed And like you said it depends upon what that is And they hit that trigger Keywords To a place That you wouldn't have normally gone to Because you were so accustomed Allowing people to just say anything And you would take it and you would sit back and say nothing But then with this is saying that In all actualities sometimes it's dangerous to be passive Yes So Because you know My main concern is Being passive Holding Then that will And that trigger is pushed It could be pushed at a place At a time that you Don't want it to be pushed And then it takes you totally out of control So then it might be better if you ask God to help you To not just remain passive But teach you how To speak up In situations Now I do speak up I do speak up but I shut down first And I think that's also part of it Shutting down is not good either Because it's It's good for you to do Okay now because when God bless you with a husband Right Shutting down is not the key Okay Because they can't get the wrong way Right To shut down And that means y'all need to have a class with me on that first And we're doing it now We have a class So what I'm saying is like I understand what you're saying mother But I really do because I have been put in those situations where The trigger button has been pushed Okay And because the trigger button was pushed It landed me in an 8 week Anger management class Mmhmm Okay That's it Anger management for 8 weeks Right Okay I went for 4 weeks But they told me that 4 weeks wasn't good enough So I had to go back another 4 weeks Oh wow Because they didn't think that I had You got the message Right You know With me going to the anger management class It taught me how To say what I mean And mean what I say without Going to big streams Sometimes we use too many words To say what we want And how we get our point across Okay And if you're not going to listen to me at that time I can say at this time We're not going to discuss this Because neither one of us are listening Okay Neither one of us are hearing what each other is saying So until we can come to the agreement Where we can hear each other Let's table this for a later date When you're ready and when I'm ready to listen Because other than that All I'm going to do is sit here And go back and forth And repeat the same thing over and over And it's not going to go anywhere I have a question Tina So when did you When did you realize that you were Passive when it comes to communication When did that start? Is it a certain part of your life That it started Or You just gradually came into that No I was passive as a kid Okay Okay So It became worse as an adult Because You know I might get in trouble for this But in the In our culture We don't give our kids a voice Okay We have no say You do what I say That's it She is just all up in the Kool-Aid on tonight So for her So when As parents When you tell us to do something Whether we want to do it or not We're going to have to do it So then as we become adults Or Teenagers And we get to the point Where we can make our own decisions One of two things is going to happen You're either going to Go overboard Or you're going to go under Because you're taught That you don't have a voice Now do you think it was In the home Do you think it was because you Grew up in a large family That you became passive Because everybody else Was always so verbal Do you think at some point Yes Okay Yes because when you When you're more than Five in the house Yeah Somebody don't get it Right Like how we were talking last Monday I could be in a room full of people And if you're not talking to me I'm telling you out Right And I've become Because I have done it for so long I could be like Literally in a room full of people And not hear nothing that's going on And when they Continue to use Nah I didn't hear nothing Y'all said I'm sorry Wow Y'all weren't talking to me So I I didn't pay attention Because you weren't talking to me You didn't call my name So you weren't talking to me And you weren't hearing What I'm saying Wow You hit on something for me Yes You hit on something for me That you know As kids when we grow up We don't have a voice Oh my goodness You didn't tend to I just caught on to something In respect to my family Right The women in my family Were aggressive The men in my family are passive Wow We need to get a box of tissue y'all I think we've been to walk into Some delicate situations here Because she brought out She brought out an important part Because In my house It was my dad's room And what my dad said You know we did not have a voice And I think As us growing up We thought We thought my mom didn't have a voice So we had made the decision An unconscious decision That when we become women We will have a voice We will be heard Wow Powerful And my brothers Are just the opposite They communicate totally different They're more passive like my mom And the girls are more aggressive like my father Wow Wow Okay Can I say something? I ask a question Is it because you all as children Did not like what was happening And then when you became able to have control You all acted just the opposite With your parents Because that's what I did I didn't like what my mom did So then I As a child said I would not do a man like that So You know That has a big impact on us What we see And so And yes you are right Your brothers are very low key And every one of your sisters that I've met Is kind of off the chain So First name, mother's corner That can go both ways You can look at You can mimic what you grow around But you can also It can also be a point of Like sister Mazon said Where when you get older When you get older You won't allow anyone Right Defense mechanism Defense mechanism Whether they're male, female, non- Whatever they may want to be If they step on the toe They gonna get it It doesn't matter what you are Or who you are You're gonna get it Because as a kid I have held it in for so long Now that I'm gone Ain't nobody to Oh my goodness Oh my goodness So you gotta challenge Then you gotta channel in On the root Of the problem And you gotta go back to the To the child place And dig up that root And allow that person To grow through that root To get to the point of Where they can communicate Effectively Without being So So aggressive They can get their point across Without Coming off as It's my way or no way I'm not gonna listen No matter what Listen Until you get to the root of the problem All you're doing is taking a bandaid off And just going Shouting there and covering it back up Nobody has ever gotten to the root Of why We act the way we act I'm still on the part I'm still on the part where she said Where Tina Washington said As children growing up In our homes We had no voice as children Whatever they said However it was handled However it was carried That's where it was Now what I want you to look at With both of your eyes Spiritual and natural Is the children are more Verbal now Than they've ever been in their life They will say anything At any time Whether it's their parents Someone else's parents But the generation and the age That we came from You were not allowed And it was considered as Disrespectful If you just join on tonight We're talking about communication Part three We're coming from the Men's point of view and how they How they communicate How they communicate their feelings How they communicate their emotions The effect that they have On the household The way that they communicated to mom Or to the children Or to grandma or to nanny Or na-na or whatever you call them So we were calling the men out on tonight And I text Roar Bell in New York And told Roar to call in And share with us How the men communicate their feelings And relationships In raising their children I text Anthony Tedlin in Chicago And said Anthony won't you call in Tonight minister Call in tonight and share with us From the men's point of view How you communicate Why you communicate like you do And where did it come from Because us women are freeing ourselves On tonight We realized at one point As children we had no voice So as we matured in age We began to develop And pick up ways to communicate From those that were around us And then second With Evangelist Andrea Dad had the voice What he said goes This is how we handle it So here come mom Being passive so as not to be Showing the kids That I'm aggressive That I'm disrespectful to my husband So I will remain passive And not say anything We're dealing with some things That if we don't See it now We're passing it on Oh I wish we could have a man To call in on tonight 727-731-0128 We're hitting on Some things on tonight That is going to help Heal and release other people When we know that We have boys that we are raising Whether it is Godly men Or godly boys We're teaching them how to be What we call quote unquote Respectful And when we're teaching them to be respectful Are we teaching them To be passive men To not say anything To not share How they feel so as not To have Heated fellowship Because that's how we were taught Or are we teaching them to be Bold men to say what's on your mind To stand up in the paint And I am man hear me roar You're going to hear what I have to say Regardless You're going to hear me If you don't hear anything else So all of that as she says Stems from our root And if we're not careful We're raising little bitty Imps like us Whether it's passive Or aggressive Do you agree on tonight? Mm-hmm Wow You know what I'm sitting here Thinking I think for us girls In my family We felt When my dad made decisions When my dad said something his way We had made up in our minds That we would never let anybody talk to us like that That's it And we saw my mom Being passive As a weakness Right Good point We as We as we got older Each of us Came to that That no man would ever talk to us like that No man would ever Be it us not mama No we ain't having that But we didn't understand That that put us in that same life That my father was in It had to be our way or the highway And that's how Us as girls The women in my family that's how we used to communicate It's either our way or the highway I might have told you I loved you But I never told you I needed you Girl you gotta stop on this line That's true Wow It wasn't until Coming into A relationship with God And Him retooling us And him teaching us How to love and how to Communicate Are we listening to hear Are we listening to respond And for me I'm gonna speak for myself but for me I was always listening to respond Because I was already Here for a fight Because I'm gonna get my point across No matter what And what I say gonna be what I say And you can't live by what I say But did God say How many How many situations did you dismiss Because Of your way of thinking How many blessings You let pass you by Because your way of thinking And then he He broke me down But he reminded me When you do it to the least one Come home You do it to me Yes sir Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out Out 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